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About Melinda

Melinda is half of the mom-and-dad blogging team from LookWhatMomFound...and Dad too! Over four years ago, Melinda left the corporate world to focus on raising her children. Fifteen years of parenting three children has provided her with many experiences that she uses to educate her family on morals, ethics, and the difference between right and wrong. While she believes academics are very important, she holds fast to the idea that an education goes beyond books and grades. Melinda strives to raise children with good hearts, strong principles, and a foundation built on love and respect for others.

Educational Activities for the Summer

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No more pencils no more books!! Remember that old song. We’re deep into summer, but I’m already thinking about how to keep their brains sharp and free from any brain drain. I’m all for a super fun summer but I know we have to fit in some educational activities so the kids don’t forget everything they’ve learned this far.

With a good list of summer learning activities to lean on you’ll never be at a loss for finding something fun but instructive for the kids to do when there have been maybe too many popsicles.

Assign a book report. This may sound utterly cruel but a book report doesn’t have to be a 5 page summary of a boring story. Choose any age appropriate book or section of chapters and then chose 3-4 questions that your child about the plot, characters or even the emotion that characters are feeling. It doesn’t have to be difficult but it should be enough to get them thinking about the story as they read it.

Play online games. Rusty and Rosy Reading has been a part of our home for more than 2 years. It grows with our youngest child so she is never at a loss for games that match her ability. Set a timer and let your child explore their favorite educational software. Find one that gives you scores or a review of your child’s progress.

Visit with nature. We’ll enjoy lots of visits to our parks to enjoy the playground, ride bikes or have a picnic. What about arming yourselves with binoculars, notebook & pen and a smartphone. Look for birds, bugs, plants and flowers and see if you can identify them by looking up characteristics. This is a great time to learn the “Leaves of Three, Let Them Be” rhyme.leaves of three let it be rhyme

Leaves of three, let it be!
Leaves of five, let it thrive!
Hairy vine? No friend of mine!
Berries white, danger in sight!
Red leaflets in spring are a dangerous thing.
Side leaflets like mittens will itch like the dickens!
Berries of red will soon be dead!
White and yellow, kill a fellow.
Plants get too thick, run away quick!
Berries of blue will do harm to you!

Host a lemonade stand. Give the kids a lesson in math by helping them run a lemonade stand. Let them know that it doesn’t just take the sale of a cup of lemonade to make a profit. What about the cost of making the lemonade, creating signs and buying supplies.

Take a field trip. Museums of all kinds are found in cities big and small. Research what can be found in your neck of the woods and see if the kids will learn something new. Don’t dismiss the obscure finds, they can often be the most fun.

Learn the history.  With just a few clicks on a computer you can find a history lesson in your own backyard. Find out about the first settlers in your area or your states leading agricultural producer or who your highway is named after.

Keeping the summer productive with educational activities doesn’t have to be boring. Look at things in a different way to hold your kid’s attention and keep them happy.

Poison Ivy image provided via Flickr from Carterse

Amusement and Water Park Safety Tips

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A trip to the amusement park or carnival should be an exciting family activity. Roller coasters, bumper cars and cotton candy should put a smile on everyone’s face. But in the eyes of a little one this can all be very overwhelming. The loud music, the shrieks of exhilaration and of course the crowds can be an overload to the senses. Before you head out the door be sure you’ve talked with your family about amusement and water park safety tips.

Get Packing
Packing the essentials is probably the first thing a parent does. but is your list complete? Pack a backpack or tote bag so it’s organized and everything you need has a place. Don’t over pack. Keep lunch in a cooler in the car and spend a few moments of quiet time before heading back in for round two.

  • Sunscreen for every member of the family
  • Water and drinks to stay hydrated
  • Food and snacks to stay nourished
  • First aid supplies for minor incidents (bandages, ointment, sanitizing wipes
  • Extra clothing in case of accidents
  • Comfy shoes
  • Sunglasses and/or hats to keep eyes protected from sun

waterpark safety tipsBe Aware of Surroundings
Always know where you’re at in an unfamiliar place. As you walk around locate the restrooms, first aid stations or even guest services. You don’t’ want to be unprepared when someone starts their own rendition of the potty dance.

Missing in Action
The biggest nightmare of any parent is losing their child in a crowded space. Develop a plan before your excursion.

  • Small children are wanderers. An easy way to locate them within a few feet is by clipping a balloon to the back of their shirt or pants. It can be seen above adults head.
  • Older children can easily get distracted too. We’ve taught our children to find the closest bench and sit down. Family will come back to the place where they last saw you.
  • Invest in a harness for the runners. Some people don’t like it because it resembles a leash but there are cuter options out there now.
  • Use temporary tattoos that display the parents contact information in case security or guest services need to get involved.
  • Walkie-talkies are fun but they can also be functional. These can work at the beach, vacation resorts and cruise ships.
  • Dress in brightly colored clothing.
  • Have a current photo of your child, even one on your phone would be helpful if you get separated.
  • Discuss stranger danger. Point out employees that they know who to turn to when lost.

Rules are for Following
Rules for rides and attractions are created haphazardly. Don’t let your child become a statistic by allowing them to go on a ride they aren’t emotionally or physically ready for.

  • Follow the height/weight guidelines of any attraction. Read the precaution and ensure your child is able to participate all the way through.
  • Listen to the operator when they say hands in, jewelry off or bags left at the station.
  • A crying child will NOT calm down during the ride. In fact you’ve only impacted their experience negatively. Watch the caterpillar roller coaster five times instead.

Enjoy your time as a family, capture the moments on camera and hold onto those memories forever. Children grow up fast, take pleasure in the time you have today.

What Type of Learner is Your Child?

What Type of Learner is Your Child

One size doesn’t fit all. This goes for clothing, shoes, bicycles and individual learning. Kids are different. Their abilities are different. The efforts are different. Their struggles are different. Their successes are different.

Each year as the school year begins we are faced with choices on how to deal with achievements and disappointments. Having multiple children with different learning speeds makes homework and report card time stressful as parents.

Our eldest daughter is given leeway on her work and study time. She’s trusted to complete her work with little micro management from us. She’s already completed 11 years of school and is quickly finishing her senior year of high school. That’s not to say her school career hasn’t been without bumps but overall her learning personality has been easy to work with. School conferences have been uneventful, reports cards have been mostly excellent. When the instances presented themselves that classes were more difficult we approached them with revised study methods.

Studying has never been our son’s strong suit. Entering fifth grade brought a whole new world of teaching that he didn’t know was out there. For his first few years of school his effort was always appreciated. It was enough to please teachers and provide good grades. This year his teacher is expecting more. She’s looking at the details and wants her students to do the same. He’s now spending more time on penmanship and research than he’s used to. Homework is sometimes a struggle but when he completes a story summary with complex details I do a little dance of joy. While he may need more supervision to finalize his work it’s worth it to see the high grades coming home. His passion for reading grows each day and that in of itself is something to celebrate.

The youngest has always craved learning. Since she was a toddler she’d find a book to look through or a scrap of paper to scribble on. These days as she’s waiting for her school day to start she’ll work on an art project or new story to show to her teacher. Her first half of first grade has gone very well. She’s been introduced to advanced reading work and is working more independently versus other students. She comes home ready to tackle her weekly homework in just one night. Her enthusiasm to learn is refreshing and I hope she never loses that excitement.

My child are smart cookies. Each have their own passion and zeal for life. Each have their own interests and hobbies. We work on a harmonious blend of all of these traits to hopefully end up with well rounded, educated, productive members of society.

Learning achievements are one of the best motivators to get children more excited about earning better test scores and grades. Celebrating each child’s achievements in their own way encourages them to keep striving for the best of their ability.

List of Must Haves for Attending Youth Sports

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It’s that time of year again, sports season. And every time it rolls around I’m left trying to remember everything we need to pack up to survive a day sitting on the sidelines. We arrive, set up our chairs and instantly realize something has been forgotten.  It’s taken many years of many sports with many children in  many seasons to come up with a solid list of must haves for sitting on the sidelines during youth sports.

Our spring sport is lacrosse. It is a daylong adventure with multiple games on the schedule so while this may seem like overpacking these things are essential especially when we’re 2 hours from home. If you’re closer to home or your day is shorter condense the list to what is NEEDED.

Foldable chairs-I tend to stand when my children are on the field, I like to watch them in action. There are times when they aren’t playing or are in-between games and I need a place to rest my body. I never bring as many chairs as we have family members.

Waterproof blanket-My favorite is a style that shakes off easily and fold into itself for easy carrying. This comes in handy for more than just watching a game. When it’s time to eat there is no need to look for a picnic table. If there is a gap between games parents or siblings can take a quick nap. It the rain is coming down it can be draped over chairs for a tent. This stays in the car at all times.

Water and more water-Don’t be fooled by cool weather and cloudy skies, you’ll need to hydrate more than you think. Don’t forget about extra water for your athlete too.

Healthy snacks and/or lunch-Concessions tend to benefit youth sports leagues by pulling profits to buy equipment, pay officials and maintain grounds, but don’t depend on them to feed an entire family all day long. Support your team with a snack purchase but don’t bog your body down with hotdogs, ice cream and soda. Packing sandwiches, cut up fruit and cheese is a simple way to nourish hungry bellies without the overindulgence of junk food.

Hand wipes-If you’re outdoors chances are you’re getting dirty. Towelettes are an easy way to stay somewhat clean when bathroom facilities aren’t available.

Hand sanitizer-No one is a fan of the port-a-potty. Small hand-sanitizers can be clipped to backpacks and handbags with no fuss.

Sunscreen & bug spray-Don’t let cool weather and cloudy skies fool you. Protect your family from the sun’s harmful rays and pesky biting bugs. Don’t forget about your athlete.

Layers of clothing-Wearing layers is key to stay cool or warm during outdoor sports games. Pack or wear an extra jacket or t-shirt in the car just in case the weather turns drastically. Keep hats and gloves in the car.

Activities for siblings-Sidewalk chalk, bubbles and soccer balls are small, portable and great ways to keep groups of kids entertained while their siblings are playing on the field.

Camera-Capture those memories.

First aid kit-The team should be covered by the staff but what about yourself and the rest of the family.  This is something we keep in the car all the time.

A plan for dinner- This is a great time to bust out the slow cooker or rely on a freezer meal.

Remember this list is adjustable for the amount of time you’ll be at a game or practice or who is attending. A little preparedness is all that is needed to make it fun and comfortable. Most important thing to have is a positive attitude and supportive spirit as you cheer your child on as they are reaching for a goal, point or win.

Showing Teacher Appreciation

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The end of the school year is drawing near. For my daughter, the end of the year is coming very soon and she’s graduating high school. She’s had a couple very special teachers in the last four years and she’s working on special gifts for them. One teacher has decorated ceiling tiles in his classroom from previous students. Another has a collection of owls decorating an entire wall, all gifts from students.

At the end of the year we want to make a special effort to show our teachers how much they’ve meant to our children’s lives. These tokens of appreciation don’t have to cost much or require a lot of work but they should be thoughtful, useful and fit the teacher’s lifestyle or personality.

The art teacher is always looking for new ways to display creations from the students.  Gift a portable memo board, decorative heavy duty magnets or a handmade display board like this card display.

The gym teacher is always on the move so help them stay that way with a brand new whistle, a hat to cheer on their favorite sports team or a large capacity water bottle so there are less trips to the water fountain.

The student teacher is studying to start a career in the education field. Their experience might be minimal but they’ve been there for the kids all semester. Start them off right with supplies they’ll need for their own classroom. Rubber stamps and canvas totes can last a lifetime. Pencils might be inexpensive but they are invaluable and a necessity.

Everyone in the school system is important and deserves some recognition for taking care of and teaching your children every year. A simple note of thanks and well wishes is perfectly ok. It’s especially better if it’s written and delivered by the student themselves. No matter what actions you take to end the school year on a good note make it heartfelt and sincere.

Discipline Tips for Children

Effective Discipline Tips for Children

Parenting doesn’t come with an instruction manual. Each decision we make as parents comes with its own set of costs that we might have to pay for at a later date. As you toddler plays in the dog’s water bowl we let out a giggle and let the behavior go as “cute”. As that child gets older and starts swatting at the dog’s tail we can no longer look away with a smile.

Introducing boundaries and restrictions to your children has to become second nature. Living a life of complete freedom may sound magnificent but how would we know accountability and responsibility for our actions.

Disciplining our children can be one of the hardest things we do. We don’t want to be seen as the bad guy but we know we have to guide our children to be truthful, inspired and kind. Following our own hearts is usually the best way but we often get caught up in some traps.

Never threaten bad behavior with empty threats. You child WILL catch on that you won’t follow through. Taking away toys or electronics for a month is excessive and we’ll often cave just after a few days. Stick with a punishment that “fits the crime” and that you’ll really follow through with.

Develop a way to minimize the whining and talking back. Sending children away to another room until the complaining is over is what works best for me. Children know how the best ways to get their parents to cave and getting under our skin often works. Find a way to keep that behavior away from your especially when you’re upset.

Negotiation skills are extremely important and are definitely something we want to develop within our children but not when it comes to setting rules and doling out punishments. Discuss the offending behavior, determine your child’s consequence and then it’s end of discussion. Stay unwavering, they’ll start to realize that you mean business.

Lay down family rules first. If your children don’t know it’s not OK to dig in the garden then it’s not fair to punish them for it the 1st time it’s done. Once it’s been discussed then an appropriate consequence should be upheld. Make the rules clear for everyone and talk about it often so they aren’t conveniently forgotten.

Bribing your baby to crawl by offering a new toy is a great incentive but it’s not the best practice for children who understand right from wrong. Rewarding good behavior with treats, stickers, money and quality time spent together will work much better than disingenuous behavior in the beginning.

Parenting is often about trial and error. We can turn in any direction and fin a new resource that tells us what is best. We have to make our own decisions that make sense for our families. These aren’t rules on how to discipline your children but instead guidelines on how to take the best approach to maintaining a respectful and organized home. Work with your own child’s ages, abilities and awareness to bring out the best in them.

Outdoor Activities for Spring for the Family

Spring Outdoor Activities

The warmth has started peaking through the cold winds and snow flurries. That could only mean spring is on its way.  With the ground warming up the local parks and trails are calling our name just wanting us to get some fresh air and exercise and spend some fun quality time with our family.

To take advantage of these bursts of sunshine I’ve put together a few easy activities that can be done outside with little work or effort but loads of fun and excitement.

Grab a hula hoop and see who can last the longest. Yes, hula hooping can be done indoors but there is never enough room for EVERYONE to do it at the same time. If you have the extra large hula hoops try jumping them like a rope.

Feed the ducks with bread ends, berries and thawed frozen peas at the local pond.  Be careful with those Canadian geese though, they can get aggressive toward the food.

Start a garden with just a few seeds. Now is the perfect time to work with a planter or flower pot to get a jump on flowers or herbs.  Placing your seedlings in the sunshine during the day and bringing it inside at night ensures it will survive the remaining weeks of winter.

Paint the landscape with watercolors, pencils or even crayons. Bring your art supplies to the park or backyard. Find that perfect subject and bring it to life on a canvas.  Create a new piece of artwork for each season.

Visit a farm and watch the animals enjoy the weather.  It’s not just people that take pleasure in the changing seasons. Pull over and observe horses gallop through green meadows and cows munch on sprouting grasses. Animals of all kinds thrive in the warm sunshine.

Fly a kite on a windy day.  Make sure kids are getting some help from adults so their kite isn’t lost in a tree, power lines or into the sky. Kite flying can be tricky so practice each chance you get.

These activities don’t require extra special resources. Most of these things we have on hand but take advantage of swaps to have any kind of fun you can muster up just to enjoy your family in the great outdoors. The point is to spend time together creating memories, smiles and good times.

Explore Different Cultures and Countries

Exploring Cultures from Around the WorldGift the gift of culture this year to the kids in your life. We all know that kids aren’t lacking in the technology department. There is no shortage of touchscreens, power buttons, cartridges or charging stations. Be the friend, aunt, parent that stands out around the holidays and give the gift that enriches their mind and sparks a new curiosity into something that doesn’t have a plug.

Exposing children to a variety of cultures encourages them to appreciate the differences in traditions and experiences of others. Showing them landmarks of other countries, taste foods from other societies and discuss customs that you’ve never heard of before.
Using art, games and toys are a simple way to bring these new lessons into your own home.

This Ikea World Map Picture serves as a backdrop for any room. It’s HUGE size works more like wallpaper than just a picture. While it’s technically not an educational tool it’s a great guideline to introduce foreign areas of the world.

Matryoshka doll are Russian nesting dolls that date back to late 1800s. The outer layer is traditionally a woman and the dolls decrease in size and sometimes gender till the smallest innermost doll is revealed. These sets can capture all types themes including fairytales, animals, cartoon characters and holidays.

Russian Nesting Dolls

Put together a breathtaking mini version of the Eiffel Tower, the grandest landmark in Paris, France. As you’re putting this 3D puzzle together talk about it’s details and stats and measurements. Doing a little research on the projects and activities your work on can make a difference in turning just a building a puzzle to an architecture lesson.

3D PuzzleArts and Crafts time comes to a whole new life with a lesson in Aboriginal Art. Encourage the kids to explore their creativity using specific techniques and methods while still creating unique and original art.

Get in the kitchen and stir up come fun with new flavors and ingredients that you and your kids may not have tried before. Starting the introduction of classic cuisines can only improve the a growing palate now and for years to come. Start with a kid friendly cookbook that features recipes from all over the world and let them choose what they’d like to get started with first.

recipes for kidsExploring the world doesn’t have to a boring educational lesson. Research of another countries and their heritage and traditions can create a love and passion for the world beyond the game controller.

Mardi Gras Handprint Mask Craft for Kids

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Said to be the biggest holiday in New Orleans, Mardi Gras is a celebration of music, tradition, food and faith. Popular partying includes wearing costumes, dancing, participating in parades and wearing masks. The festivities were started as a reminder of the upcoming Lenten season, a Christian observance leading up to Easter. Today the festivities are celebrating well beyond the borders of New Orleans. Parades & parties can be found from Texas to Philadelphia and Georgia to San Francisco.

Create your own Mardi Gras celebration or join in with your family and friends with DIY costumes and this masquerade mask in the traditional Mardi Gras colors.

Purple Represents Justice.

Green Represents Faith.

Gold Represents Power.

Materials
Cardstock in traditional colors
Glitter glue, feathers, pompoms, sequins, etc
Pencil , popsicle stick or small dowel
Coordinating ribbon or strip of cardstock
Glue & tape

Directions
Chose the colors you want your mask to be and trace a open handprint on 2 sheets. Cut these out along with large eyeholes. Tape the handprints together, use a strip of cardstock for support behind the nose if needed.mardi gras handprint mask

Decorate the mask as your child wants with any and every craft supply that can be found. The more elaborate the better. Set aside to dry.

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Wrap a pencil or stick with a strip of ribbon of cardstock.mardi gras handprint mask Adhere the stick to the back of the mask with glue and a strip of paper for support.mardi gras handprint mask

Don’t forget to take lots of pictures of your own Mardi Gras fun.mardi gras handprint mask

Working through MidYear Homework Struggles

Mid year study and homework tips

We are halfway through the school year and the bad habits are kicking in. Homework is being left on the bus, books are not being returned to the library and study behaviors are taking a turn for the  worse. It’s time to motivate the kids to keep the good grades up while introducing new systems to stay on top of the school work.

Study Partner – Sometimes just sitting next to your child at the dining table while working on your own things can be a motivator to keep them working and studying.  Being available to answer questions might be the support your child needs.  Don’t underestimate your presence, even if you are silent, you can act as an inspiration to help your child keep going.

Befriend the Teacher – Talk with the educators to find out what is really happening in school. Is your child truly not grasping the concepts in class or do they just not want to do the work once they get home.  “Is a pleasure to have in class” doesn’t give a true representation of how a student is performing in their studies.  Find out from the source the quality of work that is being produced each day.

Reward and Congratulate – If you’ve witnessed your child powering through three chapters of studying for the big test, be sure to commend them on the work.  When the grades come home showing off all the hard work, a little treat might be worth it too.  Reward charts can be implemented for younger kids but occasionally just a smile and a hug is all that is needed.

Forget the Book – Take the studying outside of the text books and worksheets. A new environment can open a child’s eyes like never before. Using the neighborhood park can offer a new perspective for subjects involving nature and weather.  Utilize toys like dice or colored blocks for math and sorting activities. A little imagination can take school lessons to new levels.

Not all students need a boost to their studying and homework process. Some children need it more than others.  Working together to get out of a rut after the holidays while facing the winter blues. Push through these last few months to end the school year with a bang!

book image provided via Pixababy